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After years of treating cancer patients, I've witnessed first-hand how the power of a positive mindset can influence the treatment journey. Positivity isn't a miracle cure, and it's perfectly normal to have difficult days. But over the years I have gained some practical insights that I've seen make a real difference for both patients and their caregivers. Let me share them with you-

When I talk about positivity with my patients, I'm not suggesting they should paste on a smile and pretend everything is fine. Instead I would suggest that you acknowledge the challenges while maintaining hope and resilience. Through my years in oncology, I've seen this approach help patients navigate their treatment journey more effectively.

For Patients: Tips to Build Your Emotional Toolkit

Every week in my clinic, patients ask me how they can stay positive when facing such significant challenges. Here's what I've learned works best:

1. Break it down into manageable pieces: Rather than thinking about your entire treatment journey, focus on today's challenge. Maybe it's getting through your next chemotherapy session or simply eating a nutritious meal.
2. Create your support network: I always tell my patients that cancer treatment is a team sport. Identify the friends and family members who lift your spirits and don't hesitate to lean on them. Professional support groups can also provide invaluable connections with others who truly understand your experience.
3. Find your daily anchors: These are small activities that can bring you joy, try to find them. For example one of my patients found peace in tending to her indoor plants, while another looked forward to his morning coffee ritual with his wife.
4. Document your progress: Keep a simple journal or use your phone to note small victories. Patients often tell me how encouraging it is to look back and see how far they've come.

For Caregivers: Tips to Sustain Your Strength in Trying Times

Supporting caregivers is just as crucial as supporting patients and here are my recommendations to the caregivers of all cancer patients:

1. Maintain your own well-being: Think of it like the oxygen mask principle on airplanes – you need to take care of yourself to care for others effectively. This isn't selfish; it's necessary.
2. Create a routine: Structure helps manage the overwhelming nature of cancer care. Establish regular times for medication, meals, and rest – both for your loved one and yourself.
3. Accept help: When friends ask what they can do, have specific tasks in mind. Maybe it's picking up groceries or sitting with your loved one while you take a walk. Take help, even ask for it.
4. Stay connected: Some of the strongest caregivers I know maintain regular contact with their own support network, whether through quick coffee dates or phone calls. Do that.

Patient and Caregiver Teams: Building Resilience Together

In my practice, I've observed that the strongest patient-caregiver teams are those who openly communicate and support each other's emotional needs. For beginners I recommend trying these approaches:

1. Share your fears and hopes:Create a safe space to express both difficult emotions and positive aspirations.
2. Celebrate small victories: Did the latest scan show improvement? Was it a good day for appetite? Acknowledge these moments together.
3. Plan for joy: Look for opportunities to maintain normalcy and create happy memories, even during treatment.

A Final Note

Remember, staying positive doesn't mean denying reality or suppressing emotions. It's completely acceptable to have days when you feel disheartened. What matters is developing the resilience to move through these moments and maintain hope for better days ahead.

I've seen countless patients and caregivers emerge from their cancer journey with newfound strength they never knew they had.

While each journey is unique, the power of maintaining hope while facing challenges head-on is universal. We are here not just to treat the cancer, but to support you and your caregivers every step of the way.

Dr. Tushar Patil
MD DM
Consultant Cancer Physician
M | O | C Cancer Care & Research Centre, Swargate & Kalyani Nagar.